Big Deal For Tiny Person
TODAY’S BREW: Delicious Chocolate Cappuccino flavor. Finally, something that doesn’t taste like the airport floor.
The 6 year old’s Kindergarten graduation is today. He has been against this thing from the get-go. Now, he’s not an introvert, and is usually the star of little school how-do-ya-do’s, but this one, he is just not feeling. So the question is:
DO YOU MAKE THE KID GO? OR IS IT A HIGH FALLUTIN’ EVENT THAT NOBODY WILL EVER REMEMBER?
This is where we raise the question, will the kid really thank us for making him sing “the girly firefly song” or will he thank us more for listening to him and doing what he wants to do?
Is there any value in making him do this thing because he only graduates Kindergarten once?
Do you feel guilt about not attending every single goddamn school function?
Will forcing the child to do something like this that he doesn’t want to do make him look back and say, “man, my parents were such douches?”
Is it totally archaic to just tell him to suck it up?
Does it really benefit a child to see his parents have such interest in his school functions, even if he does not?
Remember when there was only the one graduation, from high school, and it was a huge deal because it was the only one?
I’m feeling like we tell the boy we are going because it is important to celebrate accomplishments. It’s also important to celebrate accomplishments the way the accomplisher wants to. Therefore, we will have cupcakes and mini golf later. Either way, he does not have to sing.
Yes, we all have to do things we don’t want to do, but you know what else we have to have? Someone who says, “you know what? You don’t have to do it.”
One way or another, we are getting cupcakes out of this deal.