Deadly Ever After

Breaking Up With Trent: Finishing The Animal

TODAY’S BREW: Coffee, coffee, more coffee until my heart screeches and my fridge begs me to stop taking out the creamer because I always knock something over.

by Julie


Yup, yesiree Robert.

This happened on Monday, when Kristen and I have our first writing date of the week. We have another on Friday, but tend to drink a lot more on Monday. (This time it involved events like “I bet we can still do back bends.” We can. We totally can.) But we’re all business, too and I knew this was the night I would write the last chapter of The Animal. Nothing stops me.

Disbelief on Tuesday morning. Then JESUS MARY MOTHER OF GOD I DID IT AGAIN I WROTE ANOTHER BOOK. And then, it happened.

I had post partum word baby depression. I felt like I broke up with my manuscript.

I decided to force myself not to write anything Tuesday. I don’t even know why, but I know I should step back, let ideas well up. That’s what people do, right? I played with the kids a lot, read some stuff, relaxed, but I kept thinking about Trent. Had I done right by him? I couldn’t listen to Blood Red Shoes all day, because Lost Kids somehow became one of Trent’s theme songs. It hurt to think of listening to it. When I broke down and did it, I had to go to Ghetto Gym to work off my angst.

This all felt good. Really good. While every other writer I know agonizes over what their characters tell them to do, I always tell my characters what to do. I am the boss. They work for me. To miss Trent this way, showed me that my creations are more than my employees.


Also, I learned that it is not in me to need a break from writing. If I need a break, something is wrong with me. Before I finished The Animal, I knew that I would dive right into querying Running Home. I can only give attention to one of them at a time, this is the other thing I now know. My needs are to totally immerse myself in one project, with side salads of short stories. That’s my thing. But I can’t ever stop. Not ever.


And neither is my work. I will not have a book that sits. I wrote it for a reason. Running Home is having its time again, while I give Trent and The Animal the space it deserves. We’re just on a break, this isn’t for good.


So you all know what I’m doing, and that I do, indeed have a plan, I’m querying my first novel now. Again. Because I got scared and stopped before. In two weeks I will redraft The Animal and give it out for beta reads. In the meantime, I will be doing short stories for submission and for the blog. I have a story going up tomorrow on Josh Hewitt’s blog for his World’s End series, a sci fi bit that’s different for me, no matter how much sci fi I read.

Know this. I won’t stop writing, I won’t give myself a break. Writing is my break. And breaking up is too hard to do for me to rest.


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10 thoughts on “Breaking Up With Trent: Finishing The Animal

  1. *hugs* Way to go! And I totally hear you on not stopping. The most I can manage is switching gears for a different project. I can’t wait to read The Animal. 😀

  2. A lovely blog entry, Jules. I can understand it, getting all emotional. I just love your writing, and i hope you’ll keep me in mind for when you begin doling “The Animal” out to beta readers. Keep on making those word babies, baby! 🙂

  3. Congrats! And I am the same way. I can only deal with one thing at a time.

    One of the most useful things I learned from the tv show MASH was from Dr. Winchester: “I do one thing at a time, I do it very well, and then I move on.” It’s my little mantra.

    One of my other favorite things from MASH: “I’m going to join the nurses. I’m going to join them all up together and make one big nurse.” But I’ve found that quote to be far less helpful with my writing. 😀

    • Thank you, thank you! Great quotes, too! That second one is definitely worth hanging onto, but for what, I’m not sure. Glad to know I’m not alone in the one boat at a time thing.

  4. So proud of you. I’d love to beta read for you. 😀

  5. Thank you Mari!!!!!

  6. I ❤ the crap out of you, Lady. You are EPIC and I cannot wait to see all your books sitting on my shelf, well worn from reading , soon. 🙂

  7. Chris you give me a bigger ego problem. Love you, my friend.

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